“This is the way to flee from your emotions”

It is often considered The couple negotiations They are negative Is completely common In any relationship. In fact, when we live with someone, Conflicts and differences of opinion are inevitable.

However, even if the negotiations are uncomfortable and unpleasant, it is also true It is essential to solve them structurally and respectfully And above all, Find solutions that strengthen the relationship.

“Don’t avoid you avoiding awkward conversations, because it wake up with unpleasant emotions you wake up”

According to Psychologists LuengasInstagram is called @luciawesom, Preventing negotiations is harmful to the relationship. In fact, Lungas ensures that negotiations are needed In any kind of effective bonding and it can be This is beneficial for a couple.

Instagram has already begun to say that the psychological expert with more than 100,000 followers has discussed discussions, “You don’t want to discuss, you are not doing uncomfortable conversations because you wake up unpleasant emotions“.

In fact, Luengas Emphasize the fact Avoid, run away or do not face a problem, “it does not appear”. In this sense, the psychologist, the behavior of people who avoid any conflict, because they are small, “Realized that this is the way to handle the problems“.

“It is common to have a day’s differences in a day, and it is necessary to expose them in a couple”

According to the expert, Discussions are positiveSince they are allowed pairs Express your differences Y. Work together to find a solution. It helps strengthen the relationship and improve communication between the couple members. “It is common to have a day’s differences in a day, and exposing them is the basic in a couple“He explained.

However, this only happens this way Negotiations will be held in a sufficient wayAnd when they have a solution and do not reach an impossible viewpoint to accept, It turns out to be a difficult problem to solve.

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“It is important to talk and discuss in any type of link. It is not bad even though they awaken unpleasant emotions. I have to express myself without the invalid. And if you don’t want to discuss, the lack of emotional management you have to work ”Ends the psychologist.